Options on conlends
Initial idea on wirelends isn't to provide many-to-many connections, but similar to 'technical support'-alike application where one connects to antoher to use his resources.
As such, they can't have more than one active connection. Idea was that at some point allow conlends to be 'a bit of public' and provide many connections, but that would require rewrite of it to support message pumps for larger amount of sockets.
This all depends on how popular wirelends/conlends become. So, in the future, yes, now, no.
As for route lan only (and such options), yes, that could be added to conlends.